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On May 5th, 2005, Pamela Powell called her sister Alison.

It was Mother's Day and she wanted to wish her well and catch up on each other's lives.

This was a weekly ritual between the sisters, but on that Thursday, there was no answer.

After the beep of her answering machine, Pam left Alison a wonderful message wishing her

the best Mother's Day and asking her to call her back. But a few more days went by and she still

hadn't heard back from Alison. At first, she didn't think anything of not hearing from her sister.

Pam knew that Alison was a busy woman. Then a couple of more days passed with Pam actively

trying to get her sister on the phone. She called and called. She started calling the house at

different times of the day trying to catch her when she was home but never got anyone on the phone.

Not her sister or brother-in-law or even their youngest son.

By Friday, May 13th, she was worried enough to call the local police. It was almost 9.30 when she

picked up the phone. She dialed the number that she found in the phone book for the Chapel Hill

Police Department. When an officer answered, Pam explained her situation. She hadn't heard

from her sister in nearly two weeks and that was unlike her. She also tried to reach her

brother-in-law and nephew but couldn't get anyone. The officer took down the name and the address

and assured her that they would check into it. Pam let out a little sigh of relief knowing it was

in the hands of police. She expected it wouldn't be long before her sister called her back angry

and complaining about the police showing up at her house.

But Pam never got that call and when the police finally called her back to relay

what they had found, it was so much worse than anything she could have possibly imagined.

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Pam's sister Allison lived in Chapel Hill, North Carolina,

more than four hours away from her in Alexandria. Allison had an active lifestyle and was always

busy. Between her regular Tuesday tennis game at the country club, her art, her kids,

and co-owning J5 Incorporated with her husband, James Sapikowski, she didn't have much downtime.

James kept busy too. Outside of work, he volunteered to coach the University of North

Carolina's Chapel Hill Club ice hockey team. His players called him Big Jim because, well,

he was big and athletic, but mostly because of his larger-than-life personality and enthusiasm.

He was something of a father figure to many on the team and tried to promote interest in the

sport by buying hundreds of tickets and just handing them out to youth hockey players across

the Tri-City area. When James and Allison got married, they had two children together. First,

they had a beautiful baby girl named Lauren, and then they had a little boy named Adam.

James also had two older sons from a previous marriage, Brandon and Chris.

James's entrepreneurial instinct led to the great success of J5 Inc., an oil and gas exploration

company. It afforded them a huge home over 6,500 square feet in the Oaks subdivision,

an extremely nice neighborhood on the east side of town. James and Allison tried very hard to make

the lives of their children happy and full, and they were given every advantage that a child could

have. They loved them unconditionally and were proud of their achievements, but they also expected

quite a bit. They wanted their children to work hard and create their own success.

They achieved much in their lives and they wanted their children to do the same. Anyone looking from

the outside would say that they provided more than enough for their kids to be successful.

The Sapikowskis were the picture of a model family. In 2001, a family friend even used

them as inspiration for a children's book called The Guest Who Threw Tomatoes. In the book,

the Sapikowski family gets a visitor from Spain named Pepe. Pepe introduces them to the

Spanish cultural tradition, la tomatina, the throwing of tomatoes. There wasn't much of a

plot to the book, but James and Allison felt a certain sense of pride when looking at the perceived

image of their family. They knew they weren't perfect, but to them, all their hard work in business

and raising a family was paying off with a picturesque life. By 2005, both the older boys

had grown up and moved out. Chris lived nearby, but Brandon married and moved to Texas.

Lauren was in her freshman year of college at Washington and Lee University in nearby Virginia.

Adam was a junior in high school at the prestigious and expensive $16,000 a year

private school, Durham Academy, about a 20-minute drive away from Chapel Hill.

Adam, the only one to still live at home with his parents, was just as accomplished as his

successful siblings. He ran cross-country and competed at this state level. He was an accomplished

marksman certified by the NRA and was an avid paintball player. His grades, however, started to

take a downturn. Ever since he got involved with his girlfriend, his attention to school was at an

all-time low. It was nearing the end of the school year and soon it would be summer and Lauren would

come home and Adam would have time off. But before the year could end, Adam was looking forward to

his junior prom. He was a bit stressed out by the whole thing. His parents were putting a lot of

pressure on him about his grades. He only had one more year left in high school and he was running

out of time to build up his GPA. The next morning, Friday, April 29th, two weeks before Aunt Pam called

police, Adam woke up refreshed. He got up, stretched, changed his clothes and got ready for school.

He grabbed his backpack and hopped into his Chevy Tahoe, then drove the 20 or so minutes

to the campus. On the way, he thought about the argument he had with his parents over his

report card the night before. He thought about how mad his father got and how mad he got.

Adam feared for a moment that he wasn't going to get to go to his junior prom,

but before going to bed that night, he settled the argument with his parents.

Soon, his thoughts drifted back to his girlfriend and how great the junior prom

was going to be. The next day, as he got the corsage ready to deliver to his girlfriend,

he looked forward to their new life together. He had decided to leave Chapel Hill after

tonight, but first, he was going to enjoy the evening. After junior prom, he held an after

party at his home. That's when he planned to ask her to run away with him, but it was ruined.

His house smelled awful. The fridge had broken and all the food inside had spoiled. Little

did Adam know that all of his future plans would also be spoiled.

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PAM called the police late Friday evening, but police didn't perform the welfare check

on the Sapikowskis until the following morning. It was a bright and cool spring day in Chapel Hill

without a cloud in sight. The officer assigned to the welfare check drove down the winding road

that led to 29 Whitley Drive. Tucked back into the tall trees was the opulent two-story home

with a long circle driveway, two big bay windows on either side of a bold blue door,

and a two-car garage. The officer pulled his patrol car around the circle drive until he was

lined up with the brick walkway leading up to the front porch. He put the car in park and looked

out of his windshield at the large home. He had to crane his neck from this vantage point to see

the second story. He daydreamed for a moment about owning a home this grand, but after a second he

shook it off and got out of his car. As he shut the door to the patrol car and made his approach

to the front porch, he noticed how well-kept the property was. The hedges were trimmed,

the grass was cut, and the home just seemed maintained. When he got to the door he raised

one arm and brought it down in a hard, steady, wrap wrap wrap. He heard the reverberation of his

knock echo throughout the interior of the house. As he waited for an answer he looked back toward

the street. He doubted anything could be seriously wrong in this neighborhood, as he stared at the

even larger and more extravagant home across the street. After a moment without anyone coming to

the door, he knocked again and waited. He started peeking through the windows on either side of

the door to see if anyone was home. On the other side of the door was a large room. He could see

through the home onto the back porch. From what he could tell it was empty. He circled the home

and checked all the doors and windows. He didn't see any signs of a break-in and there wasn't

anything unusual that he could see looking through the windows. It just looked like the owners went

on vacation. The officer pulled out his phone and called the older Sapikowski children. First Brandon,

then Chris, then Lauren. All of them said the same thing. No, they hadn't heard from their parents

in about two weeks. No, they didn't know where they were if they weren't home and no, they didn't

know where Adam, the youngest sibling, was either. The officer told the siblings he would call them

back when he knew more and set off to question the neighbors. Have you seen James or Allison?

One by one, the neighbors gave the same report. They hadn't seen the Sapikowskis in a couple

of weeks. The only thing they noticed out of the ordinary was their driveway lights. Normally,

they turn them off during the day and after they go to bed, but it had been on for more than a week

solid. What about Adam? Have you seen him? They reported seeing him as recently as a few days ago,

but didn't know where he was now. The officer was informed that Adam's girlfriend lived in the

neighborhood though and after knocking on many doors, he eventually found her. She had no idea

where his parents were, but she did know where Adam was. She directed the officer to the courtyard

by Marriott and Durham. The officer called Chris Sapikowski and told him that he didn't have a

lead on his parents, but that he had found his brother in a hotel in Durham. He asked Chris to

accompany him to get his brother and Chris agreed. The officer swung by and picked him up and headed

to Durham. The manager of the courtyard told the officer Adam first checked in on May 1st

and that he had begun checking in and out, staying there off and on for the past couple of weeks.

She directed the officer to his room. When Adam peeked through the curtains, he only saw his

brother Chris, but when he opened the door, he noticed the officer. They immediately asked

Adam to gather his things and come with them back to Chapel Hill. Adam did as he was asked and all

three climbed into the patrol car and headed back to 29 Whitley Drive. On the way back from Durham,

they asked Adam where James and Allison were. He told them that both of his parents flew to El Paso

about a week ago to visit his brother Brandon and his newborn child and he hadn't heard from them

since. This answer alerted suspicion in both the officer and Chris. They both had talked to Brandon

already. Brandon didn't know where they were. They certainly weren't there and he was unaware of any

plans they had to visit him. Both Chris and the officer sat in silence for the rest of the trip.

They didn't know what to make of Adam's obvious sly. Once they arrived, the officer got out and

asked Adam for his key. Adam remarked that he didn't have a key. The officer thought this was

unbelievable. If the Sapikowskis did go to El Paso, which they didn't, they would never leave

their kid home alone without a key to get in and out of the house. The officer left the two

brothers out front while once again making a trip around the home, this time to look for the

easiest way inside. He found a door on the side of the garage that he was able to open with a credit

card and a little force. The officer swung the door open and peered inside. There were James and

Allison's vehicles parked in the garage. On the opposite wall was the door that led inside.

He walked to that door. His footsteps echoed through the garage. He reached the door and

put his hand on the knob. With a twist, he saw that it unlocked. With a slight push, the door

creaked open. He felt a rush of air escape the home.

Instantly, the officer knew why Adam was at the hotel. When no one had seen his parents

in weeks, the rush of air escaping the Sapikowskis house carried with it a stench of death.

The officer stepped over the threshold and walked inside. The entrance from the garage led into

the kitchen next to a short hallway. At the end of the hallway was a door that the officer noticed

immediately. In front of the door were four chairs stacked into a makeshift barricade. At the bottom

of the door was a rolled up towel stuffed into the gap. He knew it was a crime scene and backed out

of the home and called for backup. I guess I was wrong, he thought. Something was seriously wrong

in this neighborhood. When the crime scene investigators arrived, they made entry into

the home and took pictures of the hallway, the chairs, and the towel before trying to open the

door. When they did, they immediately found James. Still dressed in his workout clothes, he was wrapped

in a blanket just on the other side of the door. He was dead long before the pool of blood formed

around him. He had gaping wounds on his chest, head, and neck. Just past his body, investigators

followed a trail of blood to the master bathroom. There on the floor lay Allison. She too had gaping

wounds on her shoulder and her head. Obviously, she had attempted to flee her attacker.

Investigators were dumbfounded. What happened here? Two people were dead, but they couldn't discern why.

Why were these two pillars of the community now dead in their home? The investigators confronted

Adam, still waiting outside with his brother. Your parents are dead. What happened? Adam hung his head

and confessed. I killed my parents. The police and Chris were shocked. What they couldn't understand

was why a kid from a well-to-do family with no history of ever being in any serious trouble

whatsoever had just confessed to the murder of both of his parents.

Adam tried to explain what happened. On Friday, April 29th, 2005,

Adam was excited about going to junior prom with his girlfriend, but his parents were upset. He

hadn't kept up his end of the bargain. His grades were too poor and they expected more from him.

His father yelled, you're spending too much time with that girlfriend and not enough time studying.

Adam heard it all the time, but he wasn't used to it. Every time his father laid into him, he felt

this sense of anger and disgust rise inside of him. His parents had been telling him for years

that he wasn't working hard enough and his grades just weren't good enough. He struggled for a long

time with depression and suicidal thoughts because of it. This time would be different, though, he

thought. This time, I will end it once and for all. But this time, he had something to live for,

a life with his girlfriend. Instead of wanting to kill himself, he wanted to kill

his parents. Adam went and got the family's 410 shotgun. He breached the barrel and loaded a

single shell. He waited for his father to come into the kitchen. When he saw his father around the

corner, he pulled the trigger. Big Jim recoiled from the shot and fell to the ground, but he wasn't

dead. Yet, Adam breached the barrel again and loaded another shell, aimed and fired into his

father. The close range didn't leave a lot of time for the bird shot in the shell to spread so his

father's head and face were completely decimated by the dozens of pellets. Adam loaded one more time

and fired. His father was dead and his mother was next. He loaded another shell and he walked down

the hall to his parents' bedroom, where his mother was. She was still in her bathroom

when he fired the first shot. He missed and winged her in the shoulder.

She fled to the bathroom only to realize she was trapped. She called out to her son to stop,

but he loaded another shell. He rounded the corner to the bathroom and found his mother

on the floor. As she lay there begging for her life, he aimed and fired a final shot.

He had one shell left, but he didn't need it. He dropped it where he stood over his mother's body.

He was done. He was free of his parents' harsh rules and constant badgering about his grades

and his girlfriend, not working hard enough or what he could or couldn't do. It was all just

over. He wrapped his mother's body in a sheet and left her lying on the floor in the master

bathroom as a pool of blood formed around her. Then he went to his father's body lying just

outside of the kitchen. He wrapped him in the comforter from their bed and dragged him back

into the master bedroom. He pulled and pushed his father's body to just the other side of the door

before closing it behind him. He stacked up chairs and barricaded the door as if

someone was trying to get out. Adam explained that his father would get so angry with him

that he would verbally assault him and sometimes get physical. That night, in his anger over Adam's

grades, his father came at him with a baseball bat and he feared for his life, he claims. He says

that is why he shot his father, a statement supported by the Blood Spattered Report Card

and aluminum bat found in the home. But Adam's siblings adamantly rejected the idea that their

father would do that. They never experienced any abuse and that explanation didn't even address

why he killed their mother too. Along with the bloody report card, investigators found the murder

weapon and more shells packed into his SUV along with food and camping gear. Adam planned to flee

but didn't follow through with it when his girlfriend turned down the invitation to go with them.

Another plan spoiled, Adam likely thought. And I wonder if at this moment he

questioned whether killing his parents had been worth it.

Adam was arrested and charged with two counts of murder. What was left of his family would

completely disown him, leaving him alone to face his judgment. It would take three years and several

attempts at making Adam look insane before the case would finally go to trial. He claimed he was

suicidal and was moved from the jail to a hospital. He told psychiatrists that he had heard voices

since middle school and was just doing what they told him to. But ultimately unable to wiggle his

way out of his situation, Adam took a plea deal. He pleaded guilty to felony obstruction of justice

first. This conviction would put a felony on Adam's record, allowing the judge to impose a

stiffer sentence. Adam pleaded guilty to both his father's and mother's murders, getting sentenced

to 24 and a half years and 25 and a half years to run concurrently. Not long after his conviction,

his siblings had the executor of their parents' state request that the court block Adam from ever

receiving any death benefits. They didn't want him to eventually get out of prison at age 57

and start living a comfortable life. At the sentencing, his sister Lauren said

that since she had been deprived of her parents by Adam's action, she defines herself by one word,

orphan, and that there isn't a day that goes by that she isn't reminded that she is alone.

Trying not to cry, Chris shared that when the time came to explain why his youngest daughter never

met her grandfather, he didn't know what he was going to say. Adam killed his parents so he could

go to junior prom, something that he was wildly excited about and he held in the highest regard.

In his mind, this was the end all of parties. Imagine that. A party worth killing for.

Sweet dreams and good night.

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Not hearing from her sister in a while Pamela Powel called the police. Upon a welfare check the police would discover her home was empty. It wasn’t just Alison Sapikowski that was missing, it was her husband James, and her high school-aged son Adam. When the police began canvassing the neighborhood asking questions they would reveal a most shocking reason the Sapikowskis were nowhere to be found.

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