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It could also have taken my life, but I wasn't able to learn at the hospital, because it snowed, of course, in the main hospital in Låret.

And then you get the power when you first open up the main hospital.

So you have to take the striker in to the doctor, and continue at the hospital.

Yes, it's not my proudest moment as a person, because you are there waiting for the doctor to come.

And I think it's so strange that a guy comes in with a striker in his striker in Låret,

that they have deliberately chosen to keep the door open while waiting for the doctor.

It was a psychological situation that happened with a lot of journalists who were not so aware of it,

both one and two or three times, because they had to take a little time to get in on a guy who was waiting for you.

And on the break room, we went to the hospital.

Yes, the hospital.

Yes, the whole room, which was called the Riksdorps hospital in Trondheim, was in the room,

for the 15 minutes, I don't remember.

But now I have to ask, this happened, this striker in the story,

happened right after you had, in a way, got a very fancy card, I think, to you.

Was it karma?

It can still be karma, at least.

I don't know if I want to call it karma, but it's a part of me that is most affected by what happens,

because if you open it, it builds character.

Yes.

We have to have new things in a way that we add to both good and bad.

But it's also a kind of teaching money.

Yes.

Because I'm a little unsure if I can talk about what karma is, and say that it was karma.

Yes.

But a good teaching money.

Yes.

Was it enough?

Yes.

Also, I came from a family where there was a lot of money,

so having a teaching money set was a pretty utopian dream.

Yes.

But the kickstart is, the idea of, ok, but then we get to work here,

so that after a while the teaching money has been taken to a teaching money set,

because the striker thing is...

It's a bad thing.

It's a bad thing.

Yes.

So it's a little bit like that.

I've been a striker for the rest of my life.

I have to have a dream set.

Yes.

And then I have to work towards it.

When did you find out that you wanted to become a rock star?

I think it must have been...

I can remember that my mother had Alpe plate,

and I scrolled along with them,

and then it came on Iron Maiden, Shiva, Jimi Hendrix,

and the whole classic rock line.

Yes, but also a lot of MTV.

I often told people that we were going to describe my growth in the next 10 years.

Yes.

So I actually did only three things,

and it was to play with, if it was gaming or car or something like that.

And then I watched MTV and then I played football.

That's the only thing I remember.

Could you be a professional?

In football?

Yes.

Yes.

Yes, that's what I would say.

In any case, there are a lot of people who don't know how to play,

so I understand that.

It can be a bit irritating to hear,

but if you actually ask professional football players,

take P. Sillar Själbre, the captain of the national team,

and he has played a lot with us,

and he actually asked me,

because I know that you often say that I could have been a professional,

but what did you think?

He said,

Yes, but you had fun doing things in life.

Yes, he understood.

Yes, he understood.

He has such a talent in TET,

but he also understood that TET has a lot of talent.

Yes, because football for me was great,

to a certain extent,

not what happened on the track,

and how difficult it was to take training.

That wasn't a problem,

but Garderoben limited me a bit.

I felt that it was a bit of a form of unity,

and there were some new inputs in that part.

I think that's why I think that football has changed a lot,

from what I talked about with both P. Sillar and TET,

many of whom I had as a guest on the whole football.

I think that Garderoben has become a bit richer,

compared to the 90s in Trondheim.

How did you experience Garderoben?

I think that was the way you got to test yourself,

and it was exciting,

because we were often strong people,

and I had a good position with the thought that I was good at football,

but I noticed that there was something to...

I can't say that someone is not good at football,

but that they have been out of it.

Then I got a lot of criticism,

and I was very angry that I talked about it,

and then I realized that I was a bit childish.

It was like...

We could kiss,

but we could also talk about music,

or other feelings, or whatever.

You didn't get a lot of criticism?

No, because it can be that you are a bit further ahead of me,

than the others,

on having different interests.

They have experienced life a bit more.

In a certain age,

we are very different in development.

How long have we been here?

When is the 14th year?

And where are we then?

You can see that there is a gang of boys

who are good at football,

who are going to sit in the dressing room and share their thoughts about life.

It can be a bit of a problem.

Yes, it will be still difficult,

and I think that I have talked to many people

who have in a way that is half African, for example.

You experience many things in a relatively early life,

which makes you more affected,

perhaps a little more aware of those things,

because I have played in a relatively white team,

as I remember,

and I often thought about playing in the dressing room,

and so it was a part of the whole African team.

I remember that I was a guest here in the whole kingdom,

but I didn't notice that they were less in the Norwegian way,

and that's what they were responsible for.

It was like,

if you don't adapt to the way the dressing room is,

how you should dress,

it was right on the bench.

One of the best players in the dressing room,

he is a SEGA,

a fantastic player and a football player.

He was a hands-length dude,

and he played maybe three minutes in the dressing room,

because he trained and people thought that he was way too much.

I remember that I stuttered,

I think I stuttered over it,

I have a very special thought,

because if he plays on the court,

and the goal is to win,

he will be out on the court.

Yes, that's what you think.

But he didn't play the way he was in demand,

for a player in the dressing room at that time.

He was playing with some risk,

and he wouldn't have taken an overshoot,

if he wasn't in the dressing room.

But SEGA wanted to play in between a couple of players,

and play like that,

and that's often a great fit.

But it wasn't the way we were supposed to play,

and then we could find someone else.

He played the wrong way.

He played the right way, but the wrong way.

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Did you experience a different treatment,

when you were younger?

I was very...

I had a lot of distance from it,

there and then.

The things that I thought more and more about in the future.

So it's a bit difficult to say.

My mother and I have experienced a lot,

but in a way it was both good,

but also too good,

to take distance from it,

or just dive away.

So it took a long time,

when I think back on it,

I thought I was...

Or I thought I was 25,

before I really started to understand

what was going on.

But I also think it's about

that I have always been up-to-date

to adjust myself,

and that I have used a lot of energy

to adjust myself, instead of

listening to my younger sister

and saying, this is not a joke.

If we adjust ourselves,

then it can be very, very good.

But the funny thing is that

we can actually miss ourselves

on the way to the police and the police.

Have you missed yourself?

Yes, I think that at least

from 14, 15 to around 20,

I would have had more of what I like to call

an African part of me,

up and up,

to have been more free.

But it has become

a bit of a waste.

But it has come from something,

it lives in a nice harmony

with the Norwegian part,

which is a bit more

common,

as I should say.

It's very unusual over me,

I know that.

But now I can play out

and pay for

my role in life.

That's how I am.

Yes, I can be myself.

I think that Ola and Karin Norman

have had a good time

and have been met

with some other

insights and other cultures.

It's a bit of a waste.

It will be soon.

In Norway as well.

I have to say it's a bit of a waste.

And it is,

we will be kind and

very correct, often.

Yes, and I think that

many people have

thought that meeting

with another culture

should be positive,

should be comfortable.

But it doesn't have to be comfortable.

No.

And it's a bit of what often

people are growing up.

It's when they have to take a step up.

They have to stand up for what they

say or mean.

They have to meet themselves in the door.

All these things are

easy

to do in society today.

Are you the one who

looks for the friction?

No, not really.

At least not in personal

relationships.

There have been

conflicts.

But luckily

I have a girlfriend

who is from a family

where she thought it was

an Italian brother,

but they are the most

happy couple ever.

And the first time

I was on a trip with them

I thought, how should this

go?

I am the only one who is sitting

and showing off.

The only one who is sitting

and is a bit relaxed,

but it's really

annoying.

But now I have become

happy, because the one

we are talking about

is also a family dinner

game.

That you don't just have to

make fun of the dinner.

If there is something to be taken

up, I take it up.

The smell of the door

comes back every day.

I have also learned

that with my girlfriend.

It is incredible to know

that a cry is not a

downfall or an end to something.

And that is

something to understand.

Because when we have

become so good friends

and we have been good friends

for a long time,

there will be a cry.

There will be an

atomic war.

Then we just have to stop

everything and everything.

No, it's not that.

We have to be

uncomfortable.

And then we have to understand

that.

You suddenly hear

a little

of what you

mean completely right.

And in the cry, it is of course

impossible to give away your part.

And then you go

a few days or a few weeks

and say, how did you

have it on you?

I have not seen that

very much.

I have become more familiar

with other things,

but also become familiar with

why.

I have never been

aware of the meaning,

but why do I mean

what I mean.

Can you tell us

about yourself?

It is difficult.

No, because

it is

cost-effective.

And how?

In a way, I have very little time

to have it

cheap, to be alive

or die

and have very little time to

see me.

If it is a day

or a few days or a week that does not

happen now, then I create it

myself.

And it can be anything, if it is

completely passive and just sitting

and watching football or

game or

DJ.

Then I will create a DJ mix

and listen to music and

just disappear in it.

Time flies.

I have not seen it, but

what is happening

is almost an active thing.

You have decided

that this is happening.

And then I try to be

fluent in not doing anything

at all.

I have understood

that you will get some credit

for it.

I felt that

under the company

that there were

a lot of things happening, a lot of

people, a lot of fun.

But it was also a long

period that did not happen.

And you do not have access to it now.

You just have to be yourself.

Yes, you just have to be yourself.

And maybe

I have used a little time

before that

just thinking

or wondering.

So I try to

spend a little more time with

what is difficult.

I believe that

we do not always choose

the thoughts that come, but we often choose

the ones that get worse.

Yes, it is a

very good point that you hold on to

some parts of it, and you are sure

you should hold on to it.

So that they continue

so that you can pick up something else.

I will remember that

because it is very describing

for one thing I am good at

and that is that I just let it

go. But I often end up

putting words on it to others

who have wanted to give a advice to

them.

We do not always choose

the thoughts that come, but we often choose

the ones that get worse.

And then you get a different humor

because the thoughts are like that

or like that.

We try to hold on to the thoughts

that come up.

You are still not 40 years old.

No.

And you have done a lot.

You have driven the bar too.

Yes.

Suddenly you drove with it.

Yes.

I did that together with

my best friend

and three other good friends.

That is one thing I am very happy

with and have done

because it was

when I was

27 or something

when we did this.

And that was a reaction

to the humiliation around us.

Yes.

My best friend works

at a place where

the leadership was cheap.

We know a little.

We work hard. We contribute a lot

with the creative

music side of the place.

But felt that we did not get anything again.

At the same time we also

had more and more friends and guests

who complained

that Trondheim was

a boring place with thoughts on life.

Yes.

And then we decided

to sit down

at a friend's office

at a given time

for a month there.

So we almost took a break

and dressed up.

Now we are going to

have a description

of how we are going to be.

So that we

as young men

can go to people with money

and say that they are going to sit on us.

And while we were doing that

we had three friends

who were all drivable

and who had the money.

And then we had it written

of course.

So we just knew that

we were going to start a football pub.

But they were convinced

and then

we decided

to start a place

and to get as good

a club as possible

we offered

to get

a lot of dogs and dogs.

Because we were going to use all the money

on the location

at five.

And that is

the most

fantastic and terrible thing

I have done in my whole life.

Because it was expensive.

I was black

probably four or five years

after.

Even though it went well.

The months

when I went without the money

to keep this

it was expensive.

And it was

work day

but

the feeling of

being responsible

for what everyone complains

and who I am myself

and do it myself

with

all of your best friends

and three other good friends

that is when I

decided

to do something

because

we learned so much

and it was

I am

handy.

I built my first house

and we were so proud

when it was a big house

and after that

I have built a lot of things

and renovated the whole apartment.

I would have done that

if I had not started this place.

Are you optimistic

Yes, I am.

I am very optimistic

I am extremely optimistic

I am optimistic

I am extremely optimistic

So it was not a strict plan

or a bad connoisseur to stop you?

No, it was not a plan

I have done a plan in it

It seems so incredible

hard

and not

trying to think the best about things

Yes

I am sure it has been

more realistic

but

I am very happy

about how life is

and I think it has come

completely deep if I am not optimistic

I think you can correct that

because

I think it is very exciting to work with people

in different communities

and those who have

the courage to hold on

to life

there are opportunities

they are coming

almost automatically

while those who are on the other side

of the same bench

think that we will see

if it goes well

then it will be the waiting

that will be in life

No, it will never be in your journey

No, I really knew that

So, is it trainable

in that respect?

Yes, I think so

As I have learned

through both football

and playing in the band

and starting out

the things you do

then it is up to you

to choose and think

the things you can

and you have got it

It is an advantage for me

that I grew up in Trondheim

in the 90s

with Nils Arneigen

with his words

and you saw

that we

actually saw it

Björn Ottobraxta

if you are not very interested in football

you probably remember the name

but he had never

his wildest fantasy

thought that he would play Champions League

for Rosenborg

but he came into life

to Nils Arneigen

and he told the rest

that what they are going to do

and they did it

and we got that

and there are probably more

and I chose to think

that it was just a coincidence

but for me

who was interested in football

I remember

the extreme

pride

every Tuesday evening

at Husten and Rosenborg playing Champions League

and I just realized

that this is

another young man

and I realized that everything is possible

and then

what happened

was that you lost 5-1 against Arsenal

but you did it in Highbury

in London

and it is cool to play one

against

Tromsø

that's it

Is it bad there?

Yes, it is

and it is...

How do you feel about it?

It is a bit like

I try to do it on a bad day

as short as possible

or I have a little focus on that it is a bad day

everyone has a bad day

and everyone experiences

bad things

or if it is natural

that you do not feel good

or that there is something around you

that is not good

and then it is also a bad day

and it is very rare that it has

several bad days in a row

because they...

So it is not a bad period?

No, because then you have

one better reason to try

and get the next day to get better

because then you have

a bad day

and it should not be so much

because the next day

will be a little better than the previous

so it is also a little bad

but not as bad as the previous

a bad period

and then I was so lucky

that

my uncle is a psychologist

and then I do not know

how this happened

but I actually told my mother

that it had a bad period

and at that time

I was 17 at night

and then at that time I did not talk

much with my mother about such things

but I said at least

probably enough to give me

this must be solved

and then I had a meeting

with my uncle

and he

just gave me such

banal tips

routines

sleep, eating, activity

all this

I remember I thought

have you been to school

for six years to tell me this

it was a great help

I went there for two weeks

and my life was much better

because you got the place

for my part

at that point

I knew that

I had some

routines to sleep

it was not that I slept

too little or too much

but it was just all over the place

and that was

very good to know

what I work in the morning radio

and I have a model-up

a group on the day

that is bright

that no one can rock with

and then I know that

and then I have a solution

also if I understand that something is going to happen

then maybe I will take too much

or jump over too many sleep

very good

it has been very nice to talk to you

I think it is nice to be able to

get away from some

topics to people

and the optimism

is completely visible

through you

I hope that people will get rid of it

and I think it is very nice

to remember that

the break from the intro

can be loud

and be a little careful

with who you stick to

the thoughts

and just let them go

it can happen that the day

will be even better

thank you

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